I can't imagine how hard this is. Bob is still functioning but I know someday I will be there. Sending hugs and support. This group has amazing friends to share our feelings

Oh, Kerry, your words are so kind and understanding - thank you so very much

Yes, Jan, of all the heartbreak we as caretakers have endured on this sad journey, being apart is the hardest.
I wish you peace & comfort

Dear LauraV and Jacobsdan55, Sending support to you both as you grieve the sad progression of you LO's ALZ. My heart breaks for you as you give your dear spouses the gift of your love and presence til the end of their journey with this devastating disease. Hope you have support from family and friends to help you through this painful time. Your spouses are fortunate to have such loving care and advocating for them that you each provide. Praying that you all reach a place of peace with the memories of better times with your spouses as comfort. Take care.

You have every reason to be sad. Our journey caring for someone with Alzheimer’s is coming to its inevitable end. My wife Sharon is like your Tom, Laura. The last time she walked was about a month ago. After a few weeks dealing with her pressure wounds at a hospital and rehabilitation center, Sharon is now in a SNF. I am still learning how to accept our new situation every time I leave her and return our apartment alone. Some days are easier than others but all are harder than the many, many days I took care of her.