How Do You Cope With Children That Never See Their Father But Are Trying To Control Him. They Want Him To Move With Dementia For His $
I have power of attorney but hesitate to start a fight with his children because it upsets him greatly. They never see him, seldom call, but are eager to clean out his bank accounts. Having played for 100’s of funerals I have seen this a lot but never experienced such greed, anger and lack of concern for a parent. It breaks my heart. I have been taking care of him for 8+ years. He is still very functional. Familiarity in surroundings is key. Doctors have told me that it will be an almost… read more
Since you are the one caring for him, I would take charge and let go of how the ones who are causing all the problems. You will then know that you did what was best for him. Don’t be bullied by the others. You might get extra strength from yourself that you didn’t know you could muster up. It was hard when I moved hubby to a nursing home but I had to, to keep him safe. He had ALZ for 13 years before I even considered moving him. It was very hard on me but I reminded myself it wasn’t about me but the safety of hubby. He was in the facility for 2 years before passing on. And it was during COVID so I didn’t get to see him from March -end of July when he was moved to a private room so I could spend the day with him. Hard yes, but yes I would do it again.
Exelon
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